Do I still have a chance with him?
January 302010
So about 3 or 4 months ago now, we had a new seating plan in my geography class. I was moved near to this guy who I never met before. There was alot of flirty glances going on, and then one lesson he passed me a not (sort of childish yet, but some how cute at the same time). We met up after school. He wanted me to go talk to him in the boys bathroom, and we spent about 15 minutes texting with him inside and me outside, refusing to go in. In the end he realised I was not going into the boys bathroom regardless of who was or wasnt in there. He had a detention and so we walked there together and talked. In class with his friends he seems loud, confident and cheeky, but by himself he was awkward and sweet. I went home and texted him what was he doing after detention. He said nothing and so we met up, just the two of us. We were sat in some bushes in the park and we sort of made out. He wanted to do more than that, and usually I would and I don’t know why I didn’t. I guess maybe I really felt for him, and wanted him to respect me, not just for a bit of fun. He realised that I wasnt easy and I told him that. He also told me that there was this other girl who he had liked for ages. I told him he needed to make a desicion, and he wasn’t going to lead me along. he told me he needed to think. That night he told me on facebook that he chose the other girl. He was very apologetic about it. He also confided in me who she was and begged me not to tell anybody, even though I don’t know her myself. We agreed to be friends still though, even though we hadnt know each other before that day. I didn’t tell anybody, and about 2 weeks later, he did get with her. Their relationship lasted about 3 weeks. I don’t know why they split. Despite the fact we said that we would still be friends, we haven’t spoken since. At first we smiled when we saw each other at school, but now even that has gone. We don’t even exchange glances anymore in geography.
I still like him. Do I have a chance still? Should I tell him that I still feel for him?
I honestly don’t think he was just looking for sex, and I have met alot of guys who are,
This was all about 3 or 4 months ago now, and so its not like him and the other girl only just broke up
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January 30th, 2010 at 6:57 pm
Dude is looking for one thing and he couldn’t get it from you so he chose to try someone else he also couldn’t get it from. Now back to you. If she would have put out he would have stayed with her and you two would have been an afterthought. Not a very good friend to have if you ask me.
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January 30th, 2010 at 7:26 pm
you don’t want to be anyone’s second option, do you?
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January 30th, 2010 at 7:41 pm
There’s a risk of him rebounding on you from the other girl, but if you really like the guy then give it another shot. But don’t make it easy for him. Let him work for it, make him realize you really are a great catch and not just someone looking for a good time.
On the other hand, if it were me, I’m not sure I would be willing to go after someone who picked someone else over me in the first place.. but that’s just me.
Either way, you sound like a cool cat and I wish you luck. If this guy doesn’t work out, there will always be other dudes so keep an open mind.
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January 30th, 2010 at 8:00 pm
no he’s looking for a booty calll
sorry… hes a jerk dont let him waste your time just move on.. it sucks i know!
good luck
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January 30th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
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January 30th, 2010 at 8:56 pm
dont give urself to this guy he will hurt you
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January 30th, 2010 at 9:18 pm
thanks for your advice
I think that if he was going to use you as a rebound girl he would have done so already. That being said I think you should make one move. Give him one chance to prove that he isn’t looking for a booty call. After that you should move on. Why? Because you are so much better than that if that is what you hold yourself to be. You shouldn’t tell him though. Just see if he jumps at the chance to be your friend and go from there, by doing the age old Hey do you remember the homework trick. But he does seem like a player, so don’t get yourself hurt please? and thank you.
Sorry I read your question again. I just wanted to emphasize how low of a chance that this guy is a good guy. But your an amazing girl, so don’t get yourself hurt.
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